29 June 2025
Buying a home is a big deal — emotionally, financially, and everything in between. It’s exciting, nerve-wracking, and sometimes downright confusing. One term that often gets thrown your way during this journey is “Debt-to-Income Ratio,” or DTI for short. Sounds fancy, right? But don’t worry! We’re going to break it all down in a way that actually makes sense (and yes, maybe we’ll even have fun with it!).
So grab a cup of coffee, find your cozy corner, and let’s talk about how your DTI can make or break your chances of scoring that dream home!
Here's the formula:
DTI = (Total Monthly Debt Payments / Gross Monthly Income) × 100
Let’s say you make $5,000 a month before taxes, and your total debt payments (like student loans, car loans, credit cards, and the mortgage you’re applying for) add up to $2,000 a month. Your DTI would be:
($2,000 ÷ $5,000) × 100 = 40%
Simple, right?
Well, it shows how much wiggle room you have in your budget. If most of your income is already spoken for, lenders get nervous. They worry you might struggle to keep up with mortgage payments. And, honestly, so should you.
Think of it this way — if your financial life was a pizza (mmm, pizza 🍕), DTI tells lenders how many slices are already eaten by other expenses. The more slices you’ve already handed out, the fewer you have left for your house payment. Make sense?
Here’s a general breakdown:
- 36% or lower: This is the golden zone! You’re looking 👏 financially 👏 healthy. Most lenders will be happy.
- 37%–43%: This is the gray area. Some lenders may still approve you, especially if other parts of your application are strong (good credit score, large down payment, stable job).
- Over 43%: Uh-oh. 🚨 This sets off alarm bells. Lenders get cautious, and mortgage approval becomes much harder.
In fact, many lenders follow the “28/36” rule:
- 28% of your gross monthly income can go to housing costs (like your mortgage, property taxes, and insurance).
- 36% can go to total debts (including housing + other debts like car or student loans).
- Mortgage (or the projected mortgage)
- Student loans
- Car loans
- Credit card minimum payments (yep, even small ones)
- Personal loans
- Alimony or child support (if legally required)
Now, here’s what doesn’t count:
- Utilities (water, electricity, internet)
- Groceries
- Gas or transportation costs
- Insurance (health, auto, etc.)
- Subscriptions (Netflix doesn’t scare lenders… yet 😅)
It might feel like the stuff not included should matter too, but lenders stick to recurring debts.
- Jess earns $6,000/month and has $1,200 in monthly debts.
- Sam also earns $6,000/month but has $3,000 in debts.
Jess has a DTI of 20% — lenders love it. Sam’s DTI? A whopping 50% — yikes!
Even if Sam has a decent credit score, lenders will be hesitant. Why? Because if unexpected bills pop up (like car repairs or job loss), Sam might be in hot water. Jess, on the other hand, has more breathing room.
- Pay stubs
- Tax returns
- Bank statements
- Debt documentation (like loan statements)
Lenders plug all that into their calculators and come up with your DTI. It’s one of the biggest deciding factors they’ll use. They’re not trying to be nosy — they’re trying to protect themselves (and you) from a risky loan situation.
If one is weaker, the other can sometimes balance it out. But ideally, you want both in a good place.
If your DTI is holding you back:
- Work on lowering it (as we talked about).
- Consider waiting a few months, paying down debt, saving more, and trying again.
- Shop around — some lenders are more flexible than others.
- Look into different loan options (like FHA or VA, depending on your eligibility).
So, if you're dreaming of walking through your new front door (maybe even with a welcome mat that reads “Home Sweet Home”), now you know one key to unlocking that dream.
Take control of your DTI. Polish it up. And high-five yourself on the way to mortgage approval. You’ve got this!
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Category:
Mortgage TipsAuthor:
Basil Horne